More than one post in a month!

I mean, I'm posting pretty frequently y'all.  It must be a blogpocalypse.

Well, after that serious post a few days ago, you MUST'VE known I'd back here for what I do best (well, what I NOW do best - before I had children I actually used to write like the post I did a few days ago pretty frequently ... except most of them were far from that serious ... but you get what I'm sayin') which is ....

A PICTURE DUMP!

So here you go friends, happy Thursday picture dump to YOU!

Since we last "picture dumped" we've ....

Gone on walks (don't mind the fact that after I took this picture I realized there's A SPIDER ON MY INFANTS HEAD!!!!  ACKKKKK, GAGGGGG, BARFFFFFF FREAK. ME. OUT.)

Worked on our sittin' up ...

Had silly selfies with mommy ...

Went to a friend's sip n' see ...

Played "tent" in mommy's bed ...

Fallen down and smacked our face on the concrete :(

Swam some more (remember when I was all "this is how our summer has looked"?  Like it was over?  Well yeah, summer in Texas pretty much lasts until November so you may be seeing more swimming pics for the next few months weeks ...)

Went to a museum for a friend's fun dinosaur themed birthday party ...

Got a hair cut by our great grandma ...

Looked REALLY cute during bath time ...

Rode the trains with Pawpaw ...

Played outside on a "makeshift water slide" ....

Played in boxes ....

It's triple digit heat here folks, can you blame us?

Snuggled with our Pops ...

Visited trains, trains and more trains ...

Went on a (few) date night(s) ...

Acted silly in the tubby ...

Swam some MORE with mommy ...

Visited our NEW SCHOOL (that we started yesterday and LOVED) ...

Found our best buddy at our new school ...

Realized we're too chubby to fit in the Bumbo any more ...

Flirted with future girlfriends ...

Flirted some more with some more girlfriends ...

And had a good friend take a SUPER cute family pic.  She's a professional y'all, I swear there's some magic she does to make everyone in the picture look decent ...

And last but not least I think I forgot to mention when I started that I did the Advocare 24 Day Challenge?  No, I don't sell it.  No, I'm not going to ask you to join my team or try and get you to join I'm simply sharing with you the fact that it WORKED and I'm THRILLED.  I still need to lose about 15 more pounds, but this was a GREAT jumpstart for my weight loss and a GREAT way to get me motivated to keep going.  I lost 14 lbs in 24 days and could NOT be more happy with my results.  I just wish I'd taken a before pic but here's my after (all I can tell you for a before idea is I gained 55 lbs this pregnancy with N, I lost 15 lbs just from delivery and another 20 on my own at home before I started the challenge) ...

If anyone is interested in knowing more just google "Advocare 24 Day Challenge" or if you know a distributor ask them about it.  

Hope everyone's doing well, happy almost Friday!

I Just Had To ...

I'm not sure if y'all have seen the posts going around lately that are either written to the husbands of stay at home moms or written just in general about being a stay at home mom but I just had to, HAD to write something in response.  Now please let me start off with saying I've read these posts, laughed most of the way through, empathized with some of what these women are saying and totally get where some of it's coming from.  Being a stay at home mom isn't easy.  But most things that are worth anything in this world aren't.  And (pardon my poor use of grammar by starting sentences with "but" and "and" BUT I honestly don't care, even though my high school AP English teacher would be horrified - sorry Ms. Ratliff) I think this is one of those things that is DEFINITELY worth it.  Don't you?  So here I go.  Don't hate me ...

Number one.  Regarding the ranting to the husbands.  The WORKING husbands that pay for our drive through lunches, our trips to Starbucks, our gas to and from our playdates, our clothes on our backs, pay our mortgage and the fact that we don't have to pay to put our children in daycare.  Really?  I mean REALLY?  Maybe I should preface this with the fact that I have a wonderful, supportive, "lets me get out of the house" and "helps feed and put the kids down" kind of husband.  But even if I didn't.  Need I mention all the stuff up there again?  Yes ladies, I get it.  They get to go to work every day and converse with grown ups.  And wear clothes that are clean.  And not covered in some sort of bodily fluid from one or both children.  And go to the bathroom by themselves.  And not be responsible for feeding anyone else but themselves.  BUT, we get to stay in our PJs all day (not that I do ... I ... eh ... am just sayin' ....) we GET to be with these sweet babies that God has entrusted us with.  We get to see the firsts that sometimes the daddies miss.  We get to be the one that they choose first when they get hurt, are sleepy, don't feel well or need a cuddle.  Have you ever stopped to wonder how hard that is on the daddies?  That mommy almost seems to trump them at different times of their children's lives?  Because I can tell you that I know when this has shifted it's not easy for this momma who's used to being the "parent of choice" even though it does warm my heart seeing the Mister get to experience that.  So let's cut our husbands some slack shall we? There's a lot of "Yeah, well you don't have to" and "You get to" this and that that we could say but there's a LOT of the same type of thing that could be said in our direction.  Let's not forget that most of us made this choice.  Do you REALLY want to go back to work?  Didn't think so ...

Number two.  Have you ever stopped to think how RIDICULOUS and selfish this all sounds to those mommas that would give ANYTHING if they could be home with their babies?  To not have to wake up at the crack of dawn every day, get themselves and however many kiddos they may have ready, out the door and drop them off at daycare just knowing there will be things they miss each and every day?  Now this is not to say that all working moms feel this way.  There are plenty of you that choose to work and more power to you if that is your choice, I'm just speaking of the moms that, given the choice, would be home in and INSTANT in their PJs rolling around on the floor with their little ones.  Soaking up each moment.  I don't know, it just seems incredibly insensitive to me ...

Number three.  I feel like we are more and more becoming a nation of complainers.  "Woah is me this, and woah is me that" ... y'all, have you READ your facebook feeds lately?  Have you SEEN the amount of people that can't get pregnant, have babies that are born with heartbreaking issues or have children facing horrific things that I cannot even fathom?  And we're complaining because our healthy, rambunctious toddlers are smearing paint on the floor, throwing tantrums, won't eat their dinner or are teasing their siblings?  It just feels so ... silly.  And honestly?  Sad.  And y'all please hear me again that there are days when I want to have a glass of wine at noon, and crawl in the corner and hide for a few hours minutes.  If you need to get out with another momma, talk about what's hard for you both, eat some junk food, drink a margarita, go shopping and just have a good time.  But in the long run?  Is anything we're going through, those of us with healthy children and a hard working, loving husband that is SO stressful that we need to be negative Nelly's all the time?  I really don't think so.

So thank your husband.  Kiss your kids and take a deep breath when they drive you nuts.  Heck, count to 10 if you need to, I do it ALL. THE. TIME.  And then just CHILL OUT.  Say a prayer.  Laugh.  Make whatever's happening funny.  Cause Lord knows if you think about it it is.  They're just babies.  They're just learning and so are we.  They'll get it all down some day and maybe we will too.  But until then, enjoy it.  There are parents hurting everywhere, working mommas, single moms and dads, couples that can't have children and so on and so forth that would give ANYTHING to have it as good as we do.  And I'd say we do.  We have it pretty good.

{DISCLAIMER:  I wrote this as much as a reminder for myself than I did for other SAHMs.  Just sayin'}